Thank you for sharing this story. It’s refreshing to see boundaries and outdated expectations in interviews being questioned. For others who may encounter similar boundary-crossing questions, I’ve found that pivoting the conversation can help maintain professionalism while subtly setting boundaries. Here are a few responses that have worked:

Redirect to Professional Commitment: 'I’ve managed demanding roles effectively and understand the requirements here. Prioritization and time management allow me to fully commit to my work.'

Set Boundaries Without Being Defensive: 'My family commitments have always enhanced my focus and productivity, and I’m confident that I can fully meet this role’s expectations.'

Reframe the Value of Work-Life Balance: 'I believe a balanced approach leads to higher productivity, and it’s been key to my success in roles with high demands.'

These responses can help candidates navigate boundary-crossing questions while preserving professionalism and confidence.